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Stop expecting peace from people who are at war with themselves

I fought with people just to find peace and comfort because they no longer gave me peace and comfort they used to give me .It was like one sided journey with myself questioning and arguing about things never happened with me .

My imaginary thoughts became so vast and I felt so deep loneliness in my heart .The saddest thought that a person can imagine about himself  got stuck in my head.

Eventually there were time when everything That  happened  in my life I start connecting it  with my destiny. 

Sometimes I feel bad because the person that used to treat me better doesn't do the same things for long time and my overthinking mind start visualizing things .The worst scenario is when you realize they no longer hold the same feeling for you.

Let me tell You this thing that nothing actually changed sometimes we get so dependent of someone's behavior that we think this person is never going to change for me because he never did.

So recently I learned that we are Social People it may not effect you because you haven't faced that situation yet but may be other person is going through some different cycle of life .

He adapt the changes because the Social behavior  may have affected him internally that his perspective towards life has changed .He no longer think the same for everyone. 

And when this thought hit my mind that you can't expect peace from people who are at war with themselves. 

Everyone is fighting a secret battle which they never told about. Let's just start expecting their  behavior may be this is the time when they need to be loved the most.

Loving someone doesn't mean that you have the power  to control   them . For me if You love someone truly you Accept them for who they are or who They are becoming. 

Accept the change do not let  others behavior control you always remember It's not your duty to please everyone .We are here to live .

Loving is a peaceful process let it be like  that  . When you start mixing love with possessiveness That's the time when things get worse.

Sometimes People need distance and time to process the things happening in their life .We need to understand that everyone's life is different they think different and their problems are difference sometimes people faces problems which you have never faced so there are chances for you to  not understand them which can lead to miscommunication .

It is not necessary that People are always going to understand you because they used to do it in the  past ,start accepting that you own Your happiness for lifetime no one can do that for you .

Sometimes Loving someone can be letting go and leaving them for their good .

If a person is meant for you they will always find a way back to you . 

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