In my past few week back something that I really realised is the times in my life when I have been the happiest. I wasn't necessarily because of what was going on in my external world it honestly had to do with the people That I was surrounded with and the relationships that I had and like the love that I was sharing with others.
Because I think back to times Where my Living situation like externally was just horrendous and horrible but I was sharing it with The most genuine and beautiful human beings ever so I loved those times in my life .
I realised that we really need to put so much value on the peoples that are our life and the relationships that we adore the most.
It can be scary to put Yourself out there to take a risk or opportunity and not know how Its going to play out but I realised that There's so many micro chances that I Don't want to miss out in this one .
In a lot of ways the last few months have felt like coming back to the idea of figuring It out and finding myself in that once again.
You may also like :Story of life
I think everyones just needed The reminder in their life that You need to take risks in your life ultimately just trust Yourself that you will have your own back in Whatever situation you find Yourself in and that you won't let Yourself down in the end .
That is like the core of it .it is a bold statement to say something is changing your life but truly like I think back on the past couple of months even and the amount of time that I could have said ,you need to feel your life again.
Loose Yourself a little along the way to Learn to let go and That's ok we find our way back eventually.
We have to embrace discomfort and I think as a culture we often glamorize transformation after the fact but in realty the process of getting there is not Always a smooth ride it requires us to steer away From the status quo.
Fight back old temptations maybe even break ties with friends and to leave part of ourselves behind .Change Always comes with discomfort whether Its past pulling us back or stumbling to find our new begining.
I think Its the risk that we have to take in order to commit to the life That we think we observe so Don't avoid it but embrace it because the discomfort is a signature of your growth.
We have to fight our own battles and not compare ourselves to others. From the outside think Its easy to point out others peoples privileges and justify why Its okay for us to stay the way that we are ,but what we don't see is their pain ,their story and what They have been through to get to Where They are .
Because everyones battles is so unique and different the best that we can do is just focus on ourself and once in a while look back and see how far we have come .
Comments