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Nurturing your soul : A self -Love guide

 What is better than finding yourself? 



Find yourself first anything else is available on google. This thought changed my mind completely. Searching for your true  self ,your soul your mind ,your peace ,the best thing You truly can do to your self .

Its not mandatory to fulfill the demands of world .Allow yourself to live best way possible. 

I still  find myself at the stage where I feel emotionally weak ,mentally unstable ,completely lost sometimes I do even question my existence. Where do I stand ? Do I fulfill the demands of a good daughter or even have I done something good for my parents?


There's alot of questions which arise in my mind ,that makes me feel so bad that I start hating myself .
Whatever you feel ain't your fault all the time Its just how your body reacts to certain things .You have heart  your body reacts  whenever you get hurt you cry , feel bad .That's how a person supposed to react don't feel shame or weak when you cry or felt that pain.

That's life you laugh ,cry or feel exhausted or other time overwhelmed. That's how body reacts. 



My whole life I have never been fully committed to myself. From my childhood to adulthood I had always thought about making my families,friends and every close person proud and happy. 

Never put my self my first priority my whole life  to please Every one else .Believe me that temporary satisfaction of being a perfect girl had put me in so bad position many time.

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     Why does that happen?

The answer is I have never been true to myself the life I was living was totally someone else's. That wasn't my true identity. I was so busy in pleasing others that I totally forget my identity. 

So my true identity is I speak politely with elders,loudly with my siblings. Not so frank in front of unknown person and not too shy around my favourite peoples.I cry easily, get offended easily and expect my favourite peoples to calm me down .I like long talk ,long drive at night ,watching stars and moon has been my favourite thing since childhood.

These little things makes me myself .But to fulfill others demands  I choose to become what I was told to do ,what they wanted me to look like behave and think.

Those little things changed myself that I even forgot who I truly was.

Society standards change a persons identity and make him completely social robot.you will start assuming like how I should think to become a perfect girl. 

The society has changed everyones perception of life 

While chasing these so called social standard I realised what it has done to me so far .When you will find yourself at the stage where you are no longer fulfilling all those demands you will start feeling exhausted completely lost.

The emotional trauma will start hitting your life so hard that the life you were living will haunt you down.The expectations you gave to everyone will surely make you anxious. 

You will start questioning why does that happened to me ?What have I done wrong? 


Your fault was only that you were never true to yourself. Living life according to others will lead You  to wrong places.

Not being true to yourself is the worst thing you can do to yourself. 
     Was it even worth to live like that?



While living someone elses life we start loosing our connection with ourself. 

Like others when I found my true self ,the realisation of never being truly loved came to my mind ,that made me so lost. That made me realise  I have been living my whole life so fake that I lost my identity. 

Is it too late to search for yourself ?

   No


Love your true identity God has made everyone differently, we have some unique features ,different body reaction, different taste ,habits and body type 



What can you do to love yourself -


            *Always remember if you live someone elses life it will make you puppet of Society. A person who will change time to time for everyone.

Be independent to your feelings if you feel bad no one can make you good from inside .its you who need to love yourself. 

Read because it will teach you so much

Do yoga or physical workout it will teach you self love 

Meditation will connect you to your soul.

Never loose the connection with your soul ,it will guide you through your dark phases and will make you so positive From inside.

Feel free to choose Yourself  everytime Find happiness in everything you like .

Always remember we are not in the race to run we are here to find our true identity.

   

Have you found yourself yet?

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